Online Therapy for Work/Life Challenges

Are you hav­ing work/life chal­lenges? Well, you’re not alone.

Around 60% of work­ers in the US feel like they don’t have bound­aries sep­a­rat­ing their pro­fes­sion­al and per­son­al lives. Even more shock­ing­ly, 66% skip a meal every day because of their work hours!

And yet, 72% know the impor­tance of main­tain­ing a healthy work-life bal­ance.

So, what’s get­ting in the way between most peo­ple and that bal­ance? Is online ther­a­py for work/life chal­lenges the answer?

Getting Through the Obstacles

There’s a lot that could keep a per­son from seek­ing pro­fes­sion­al help for work-life imbal­ance. Hec­tic sched­ules and fear of the stig­ma are two com­mon obsta­cles.

Let’s take a clos­er look.

Finding the Time for Therapy in a Busy Schedule

If you’re already jug­gling a hec­tic work sched­ule, you might be under the impres­sion that ther­a­py is off the table. After all, you bare­ly have time for your per­son­al life. So, how are you going to find time for week­ly ses­sions?

We under­stand the strug­gle, but there are flex­i­ble ther­a­py options. For one, it’s eas­i­er to squeeze online ther­a­py into your sched­ule and make it work on your terms.

Plus, you could ask your employ­er to accom­mo­date your ses­sions. You’d ask for it if you had to go to the den­tist, wouldn’t you?

Sure, peo­ple can be weird about men­tal health issues, but you don’t have to dis­close all the details. You could just let them know you’ll be hav­ing a recur­ring med­ical appoint­ment for the next few months.

Dealing With the Stigma

Your boss, cowork­ers, and clients may assume that your “recur­ring appoint­ment” is men­tal-health-relat­ed. You might even want to dis­close that you’re in ther­a­py.

Some say you shouldn’t dis­close, but it’s up to you.

If you’re in a senior role, talk­ing freely about ther­a­py can show staff mem­bers that you sup­port men­tal health. This way, you’ll encour­age them to be hon­est with you if they need help, too.

Remem­ber that to deal with the stig­ma, you have to start by chal­leng­ing your own out­look. When you feel shame, oth­ers around you might pick up on it.

How Online Therapy Can Help You

Find­ing time in your sched­ule and deal­ing with the stig­ma might seem like a has­sle, but pro­fes­sion­al help is worth it.

Clarifying Misconceptions

Peo­ple often ignore per­son­al dif­fer­ences when they’re defin­ing work-life bal­ance. You see, the “per­fect” work-life inte­gra­tion for you doesn’t have to look the same for your friend or your cowork­er.

How do you fig­ure out what it is sup­posed to look like for you?

Well, that’s some­thing that a ther­a­pist can help with. Dur­ing the online ses­sions, you’ll work on iden­ti­fy­ing what mat­ters most to you and find­ing out what is/isn’t nego­tiable in your life.

From there, you can start set­ting real­is­tic goals.

Online Therapy for Work/Life Challenges
Online Therapy for Work/Life Challenges

Establishing and Communicating Boundaries

Nowa­days, it’s hard to real­ly take a hard stop from work. Some of us live with the risk of an urgent email pop­ping up on our phones vir­tu­al­ly any time.

Hav­ing a hard time say­ing “no” will only exac­er­bate the prob­lem. That’s why you might want to talk to your ther­a­pist about set­ting healthy bound­aries and com­mu­ni­cat­ing them with your man­agers and cowork­ers.

Knowing When to Ask for Help

Know­ing and being proud of your strengths is great. How­ev­er, ther­a­py ses­sions will show you that, some­times, it’s okay to ask for help (and even out­right del­e­gate).

Not only will this help you iron out your sched­ule, but it’ll also keep the stress down.

Guarding Your Downtime

Your ther­a­pist will like­ly ask you to make time for your­self. That’s not nec­es­sar­i­ly the same thing as set­ting time for your fam­i­ly and friends.

Instead, you want to sched­ule self-care activ­i­ties and make sure noth­ing infringes on this down­time.

Addressing Relationship Problems

Maybe being so occu­pied with work has strained your rela­tions. Or per­haps it’s the oth­er way around, and fam­i­ly issues are com­pound­ing your work-relat­ed stress.

Either way, you need to address prob­lems in your rela­tion­ships to get clos­er to your work-life inte­gra­tion goals.

Indi­vid­ual ther­a­py and cou­ples coun­sel­ing both can come in handy here.

Online Therapy for Work/Life Challenges
Online Therapy for Work/Life Challenges

Managing Stress

A ther­a­pist will also help you man­age stress, regard­less of what is caus­ing it (work or per­son­al life).

This could include:

Let’s get started

Reach out today to improve your work-life chal­lenges, estab­lish and com­mu­ni­cate bound­aries, reach out for sup­port, guard your down­time, address rela­tion­ship prob­lems, and man­age stress.